• jerry@lemmy.world
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    1 year ago

    Ive never really thought about it untiul I read about the RAAD test, then I took it and got a 115 and now I’m like ooooohh. When the move is done and got a new Dr gonna ask about it.

  • Cass.Forest@beehaw.org
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    1 year ago

    You missed the stage where you don’t want to openly identify as autistic because of the stigma surrounding both autism itself as well as self-diagnosis

    • BOMBS@lemmy.worldOPM
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      1 year ago

      I’m just entering that stage after a seeing how some of my friends have started treating me once I told them. With these friends in particular, now everything I do is somehow an autism conversation starter.

      • Example 1

      Me: I spent last learning about abiogenesis. Have you guys looked into that?

      Them: omg, that’s so autistic

      • Example 2

      Me: I cut it off with the [autistic] girl I was dating. She had some red flags that really turned me away.

      Them: Okay, so you’re both, which means you guys have communication deficits.

      It’s like I stopped being me with personal characteristics, preferences, and interests. Now, I’m an autism case without any individuality outside of autistic traits. Also, to them, I’m not autistic. I have autism. This has really strained the relationship to the point that I don’t really desire to spend anytime with them. It’s sad, because I’ve known them for over 5 years, and up’til now, they had been pretty cool.

  • BeautifulMind ♾️@lemmy.world
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    1 year ago

    Hahah I recognize every one of these spaces I’m another late-diagnosed adult, and the weird thing about it is that I didn’t start having these conversations with myself until after being diagnosed

    Masking is a hell of a drug

    • BOMBS@lemmy.worldOPM
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      1 year ago
      • I’m too scared of people
      • I’m too sensitive
      • I misbehave/don’t pay attention because I’m bad
      • Autistic people are so cool and smart
      • I might have a personality disorder
      • Actually, my friend thinks I’m autistic
      • Nah, I’ve been misdiagnosed before
      • I’m just trying to come up with excuses
      • Now I’m being rude
      • I’m always trying to come up with excuses
      • HOLY FUCK I’M AUTISTIC! THINGS MAKE SO MUCH SENSE!!
  • Ace_Addams@lemmy.world
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    1 year ago

    My therapist was telling me she’s pretty sure I’m autistic, I wasn’t sure. So she gave me a book called “Aspergirls” and it was like reading my life, super spooky.

    • BOMBS@lemmy.worldOPM
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      1 year ago

      yeah, I get caught off guard sometimes when I think I’m not “that autistic” and then run into a meme. the latest thing is that I started watching Love on the Spectrum and feel like I’m watching documentary of my life. it’s hilarious to me 😆🤦‍♂️

  • Phileosopher@programming.devB
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    You’re forgetting the future stages:

    • holy crap! im autistic
    • hey everyone, im autistic
    • okay, i guess it just explains everything
    • nobody seems to care that much
    • alright, i’ll go find a good-paying tech/accounting/science job now
    • proud to be ASD, if anyone cares