Zathras

It Takes Two felt a bit easier/beginner friendly (and I liked the story better), but I would also recommended both of them.

I save scum my rolls in BG3 to get desired outcomes

I have not used this functionality yet, but it does have a reminder option.

I have been using Buzzkill for several years and I love it. That being said, I am very “audio focused” and love the fact that each type of notification can be set to have a different sound and vibration pattern. As far as visual settings, especially in relation to a LED, I did not see any settings that can directly affect those. However, there is an option to trigger a Tasker task which may be something you could use in setting up LED notifications. But I don’t currently use Tasker and cannot confirm this functionality.

In any case, good luck!