I was looking at manufacturer prices, but I also just realized I was converting the wrong currency.

I’m terrible at math so I really shouldn’t have commented lol

Definitely pricy. For comparison, with the coupon it’s still more than a Samsung Galaxy S25 and an IPhone 17 Pro.

When I was going through the diagnostic process, my therapist kept telling me “we don’t want to change people’s way of thinking for being autistic, that’s no-win scenario”. You could force yourself to eat everything someone throws at you, but what’s the cost? You’ll remember and feel that forever, and they’ll expect you to be cured.

Be kind to yourself, the way you eat doesn’t need to change if you aren’t experiencing health problems. You are already eating normally even if that normal isn’t part of your families normal

I think you have different needs than your family does, and it’s most apparent to them when it comes to food. Some people show their love by sharing food, and this is also very common in a lot of cultures. If I turn down food at one friend’s house they get extremely hurt, like it’s personal, when it’s nothing to do with them. With these people I give a specific list, with brands, and tell them that more than anything I’ll be happy with water and a fresh orange to squeeze into it. (partly because oranges are easy to have on hand, and partly because people get so excited when they find me an amazing bunch of oranges xD)

My brother and I were born with different genetic mutations, but his affected his eating and that’s what my parents noticed first. He would be diagnosed with ARFID now, but at the time they just thought he was picky. Turns out he physically couldn’t eat the same way. But once my family thought they had it figured out, they berated him for never putting weight on (like my fat ass did). The reason I’m sharing the story is that he never developed that food-is-comfort thing that other people do. He needs food that is safe to eat, that he can actually chew and swallow, and sate hishunger with.

I don’t know if you like chicken strips, but that’s usually considered a bland, ergo “safe” to the NT mind, type of food. There is little risk in that food to them. I have friends who can’t handle any pepper, and straight up refuse to eat certain brands of chicken strips. I can’t stand the texture or the risk of that rare bit of gristle. People who don’t understand it and don’t try, won’t. And I think that might be where a lot of your frustration is coming from. They aren’t really trying to understand your needs

So besides a very specific list of foods to help your family support your needs, I would ask if there’s anything that isn’t food related that your family likes to do? Board games? Planning trips? Most people connect over food and it helps to have an alternative connection activity when eating the way you and your family want is stressful and frustrating for everyone

Right? The text service I use doesn’t allow video. Sometimes it won’t allow large photos either lol

There’s four justices over the age of 70 (one is Sotomayor). Not that age means much in regards to mortality when one has the resources that they do

It does feel like there’s a new wave of change, I have no idea if it’s due to new reddit refugees or general discontent. But yes, there does seem to be a lot more down voting, more quarrelsome comments, less cohesion within some communities.

There’s also been a few posts sprinkled across instances discussing some accounts that do nothing but down vote. No comments, no posts, just down votes

Zone, soil type, and sun would help narrow things down.

Lemongrass did well for me, but that won’t survive most winters. Unless you’re okay with keeping things in pots and wintering indoors