So I’m a shut-in with a ton of problems and no money. My life revolves around World of Warcraft and Destiny 2 which is sad in its own right I’m sure. Anyway every single time I try to find a community (guild or clan) it goes to hell within a month or so. They always say I’m too negative about the game or my performance. No matter what I do/say it apparently always comes across as ‘negative’ and they see it as hurting their community. Funny enough these communities are always dead and I’m talking into a void trying to engage people.

Sorry I’m not sure why I’m posting this. Just had another group tell me I was getting kicked due to negativity and I’m so tired of it. I don’t have any friends, I’m always starting over from scratch and even if I try my hardest it still ends the same way. Don’t even feel that I’m being negative since I just say bugs me. Sorry. Feel like I could cry, because of everything, and I can’t even do that.

  • Nosavingthrow@lemmy.world
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    6 months ago
    1. Play better games. The meaningless pursuit of power is rotting your brain. Chasing gear is boring and asks nothing of you.
    2. Get different hobbies. Seriously. Games are rotting your brain. Go see a movie. Go bird watch or something.
    3. Is your representation of other people problem with you really accurate? Reading your post, I don’t think anyone could glean what’s really going on. Like, how are you negative? Are you verbally berating someone who doesn’t heal you in WOW? What questions are you finding acceptable in the LGBTQIA+ groups? Are you finding it reasonable for someone to imply all queer folks are pedos?