EmperorHenry@discuss.tchncs.de to Autism@lemmy.worldEnglish · 6 months agoAutism rulemidwest.socialimagemessage-square36fedilinkarrow-up1376arrow-down138file-text
arrow-up1338arrow-down1imageAutism rulemidwest.socialEmperorHenry@discuss.tchncs.de to Autism@lemmy.worldEnglish · 6 months agomessage-square36fedilinkfile-text
the people I know don’t listen and often hear the opposite of what I say. That’s why I have to repeat myself a lot.
minus-squareParagone@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up23arrow-down12·6 months ago Say what you actually mean. Mean what you actually say. For some reason those 2 rules are the OPPOSITE of how normals’ culture wires people to work. Normals’ rules are: Don’t say what you mean. Say what you don’t mean. It’s abuse, & needlessly exhausting. Gaslighting is just an exponential-amplification of normal-dishonesty. _ /\ _
minus-squareslackassassin@sh.itjust.workslinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up8arrow-down2·6 months agoStereotyping and otherising “normals” is some next-level tribalism.
For some reason those 2 rules are the OPPOSITE of how normals’ culture wires people to work.
Normals’ rules are:
It’s abuse, & needlessly exhausting.
Gaslighting is just an exponential-amplification of normal-dishonesty.
_ /\ _
Stereotyping and otherising “normals” is some next-level tribalism.