that’s not a friend, that’s an acquaintance that thinks you’re less than human. as A Gay™, that was an apt comparison, especially considering an autism diagnosis has been specifically used as another way to oppress and infantilize trans and gay people (especially AFAB people). absolute scumbag behavior. i’m really sorry you had to go through that. :(
like, yes, i’m angry and disgusted at this thing and the people that made it happen. why aren’t you this upset? how could any decent human being not be??? sometimes it seems like allistic people don’t care about anything…