I’m already 35, and I don’t think I could get anything at this age, especially in an area with almost no third places, almost nonexistent mental health system, etc.
Yes I know, friends do exist, but it’s just not the same (unless you happen to regularly have sex, cuddle, etc. with your friends).
I was going on 30 without really having been in a serious relationship ever and had the thoughts you communicate in the title. Started trying to date some girls from the Philippines in my home town and ended up meeting one of their friends’ friends… It all worked out in the end.